Understanding TBRI: Building Connection & Healing

Tools and Techniques for Creating Safe, Healing Homes

Ever wondered how to truly connect with kids who’ve faced tough times? At Coyote Hill in Mid-Missouri, we’re all about Trust-Based Relational Intervention (TBRI), a game-changer in building strong, healing relationships. Think of it as a roadmap to understanding and supporting children who’ve experienced trauma. Let’s explore how TBRI can make a real difference.

What is TBRI?

TBRI, developed by Dr. Karyn Purvis and Dr. David Cross at the Karyn Purvis Institute of Child Development at TCU, is a holistic approach. It’s not just about changing behavior; it’s about healing the whole child. It focuses on creating safety, connection, and empowerment, recognizing that trauma can rewire a child’s brain.

Integrates attachment theory, sensory processing, and neuroscience.

Key Concepts:

Addresses the impact of complex trauma on children.

Emphasizes the importance of felt safety and secure attachments.

Understanding Trauma’s Impact

Trauma can leave deep scars, affecting how kids see themselves and the world. It can lead to fear-based behaviors, making it hard for them to trust and connect. As Dr. Bessel van der Kolk explains in “The Body Keeps the Score,” trauma lives in the body, not just the mind.

Trauma disrupts a child’s sense of safety and connection.

How We Help: The TBRI Approach

TBRI gives us practical tools to build trust and create a healing environment. It’s built on three core principles:

Engagement

Empowering

Correction


Explaining The Three Main Principals of TBRI

Engagement:

  • Creating a sense of safety and connection through playful engagement, matching affect, and using a soft voice.
  • This is all about “meeting the child where they are” and building trust through non-threatening interactions.

Empowering:

  • Helping children learn self-regulation and develop healthy coping skills.
  • Providing structure and predictability to reduce anxiety.
  • Addressing the childs physical needs, because trauma can cause sensory processing issues. For example, check out this great resource on sensory diets from The Restore Network: Empowering Principle Sensory Diet.

Correction:

  • Teaching children life skills and helping them make healthy choices.
  • Using proactive strategies like “redos” and “compromises” to address challenging behaviors.
  • Focusing on teaching rather than punishment.

    Hurt that occurs in relationships can be healed through healthy, safe relationships.

    A foster and adoptive family poses in front of a courthouse after finalizing the adoption of two of their children.

    Recommended Resources

    Books

    YouTube Videos

    Podcasts

    Foster the Call Conference

    • Join us at our Foster the Call Conference to learn more about TBRI and other essential foster care topics: Foster the Call Conference.

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    We hope this resource helps you understand the power of TBRI. At Coyote Hill, we’re dedicated to creating safe, loving homes and building strong connections with children in Mid-Missouri. Join us in making a difference!


    Foster Care Services Team


    Paige Douce, TBRI® Practitioner

    Paige Douce, TBRI® Practitioner

    Training Manager

    Cody Cox, TBRI® Practitioner

    Cody Cox, TBRI® Practitioner

    VP of Programs

    Lorenzo Scott

    Lorenzo Scott

    Family Advocate

    Christopher Freeman

    Christopher Freeman

    Family Advocacy Manager

    Lisa Parrish

    Lisa Parrish

    Family Advocate

    Phil Douce

    Phil Douce

    CarePortal Manager

    Jaimee Marshman

    Jaimee Marshman

    Family Advocate

    Sami Bowman

    Sami Bowman

    Family Advocate

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